Reducing parental conflict
There are different kinds of conflict in relationships. Not all conflict is damaging, but it’s important to remember that the way it is displayed, how often it happens and how conflict is dealt with can all have a negative impact on children.
What is ‘parental conflict’?
Some arguing and conflict between parents is a normal part of everyday life. But, when that conflict is intense, happens often and is not properly resolved, it can have a very negative impact on children’s mental health and long-term life chances.
Conflict between parents can become damaging in many ways, such as:
- unfinished arguments
- not talking to each other
- not respecting each other
Conflict can affect children in all types of family relationships, including:
- parents living together
- parents who are separated or divorced
- biological and step parents
- other family members who have a parenting role
- foster and adoptive parents
Watch the below video made by Barnardos and find out more.
Barnardo's Family Space
Barnardo’s Family space is a good place to read more. Their page tells you about:
Stronger Relationships online course
Do you want new ideas to help you be a better parent? Would you like to reduce arguments and disagreements in your family? Would you like to improve your relationship with your current or ex-partner?
Find out more about the Strengthening Families Stronger Relationships online course. Six online discussions at a time that works for you. Hear from experts and other parents like you.
To register for the course, email sfscparent@racefound.org.uk
Other resources
Parenting programmes that teach you to become a more effective parent can help reduce or stop conflict:
Relate has advice about building positive relationships – they also offer relationship counselling.
See it differently has some clips showing different family conflict situations and how they can be handled more effectively.